This is the whole reason I wanted to Blog in the first place

I wanted to Blog
because i wanted to talk about
childbirth and afterhours of childbirth
but I have yet to have the words or clarity of thought
to say just the right thing
so I'm gonna just say something

I do not know what your experience was like
and you do not know what mine was like
you don't know

Sometimes what mercy is - is showing kindness support and gentleness even and especially when we don't understand why or what the needy one needs